"you could capsize the boat of lies that you've been living in..."

The story:

I loved this song since it came out. I always thought, "that's a really
artistic, cool lyric!" So I was listening to it on Pandora, and I wanted
to see a video. When the lead singer got to that part, it didn't look
at all like he was saying what I thought all this time, so I checked it
out with kissthisguy.com; and hot-faced, realized that wasn't it!